November 13, 2010
We dont live together?
By Planet Wealth
Im getting fed up..its 2 years my husband has been sharing house with 2 of his mates, they came from another country together so theyre like family..anywho Ive lived temporarily with them I dont wish to live there now because i dont get along with one of the guys but i told him a million times its time to get our own place sooon. He says he needs to see the lease out and he cant just up and leave the other guys.He feels terrible really that they will have to pay more rent..He also dosent want to lose them because thats all he has here besides me ofcourse… I practically live at his home, im sick of running home to get stuff clothes etc..go home to do stuff its wasting fuel and paying 2 rents when we shouldnt be! I just bought a huge plasma tv, its collecting dust at my house, i wont place it here because i dont want this other person to use it and also i do go home 2 nights a week n what am i gunna watch? What is a solution for us?…2 years is a excellent time to tell him, go in with me or else?….!!
yes we are married and no he is not from turkey or any country near thanks!
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November 13th, 2010 at 3:11 pm
You sound like you’re in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship not a marriage. Are you sure you are married? it just doesn’t sound right. Most married men wouldn’t place their wives in that situation and most married women wouldn’t allow it. if you are really married, then you need to place your foot down, it’s really inappropriate that he place his friends before you.
November 13th, 2010 at 3:11 pm
This situation is obviously putting you under a lot of stress. It may not be that he is a terrible husband at all. He may just not find it stressful, because he gets to stay with his friends and see you, so he probably doesn’t know. You should try explaining this to him, without sounding mad or accusing him of anything. Tell him that commuting back and forth between your place and his is a very hard thing to do, because of the reasons you have clarified. Then, once he understands how you feel about this choice, give him an ultimatum. Either you and him go in together,without his friends, or you get a divorce. It may seem like a hard thing to go through with, but if this man really likes you than he would be willing to do something huge like this for the benefit of your relationship, right? If he won’t go in with you, it’s a huge signal that he either doesn’t care enough about you to make that choice, or he’s dumb and can’t see what he is about to lose. I’m not saying divorce him right now, but if you really talk it out with him and he still won’t see your side and make things even in the relationship than maybe it is time to find a man that will treat your needs with respect.
November 13th, 2010 at 3:11 pm
Well said R.P.S. It doesn’t sound like you’re married and you’re sure not a couple. The bible says a man should leave his parents, friends and family and cleave to his wife. Sounds like you’re being used here. Could he possibly be gay?
November 13th, 2010 at 3:11 pm
did you say before he’s from Turkey?, they don’t know how to respect women.